As parents, we know our words have power. The things we say to our children—day in and day out—shape their confidence, self-worth, and sense of security. Even the smallest affirmations can make a big difference in how they see themselves and the world.

Here are five powerful things to tell your child every single day:

1. “I love you.”

It seems simple, but your child can never hear it too often. Say it in the morning, before bed, in the car, and in between. It’s the foundation of security—they know they are loved unconditionally, no matter what.

2. “I’m proud of you.”

Whether they aced a test or simply tried something new, let them know you notice their effort. Pride isn’t just for big accomplishments—it’s about recognizing their growth, kindness, and perseverance.

3. “You are important.”

Children thrive when they feel valued. Remind them that their thoughts, feelings, and contributions matter—because they truly do.

4. “I believe in you.”

Sometimes, our kids need to borrow our confidence until they find their own. This phrase reminds them that even if they face challenges, they have someone cheering them on.

5. “I’m so glad you’re you.”

In a world that constantly tells us to change, let your child know that who they are is exactly who they’re meant to be. Their uniqueness is their superpower.

The words you speak to your child are seeds. Plant love, encouragement, and belief into their hearts, and you’ll see them bloom into confident, compassionate individuals.

What are some encouraging things you say to your child every day?