So, what is it that makes people cheat on their significant others? Why do so many husbands, wives, boyfriends and girlfriends risk long-term relationships for the sake of a few minutes of immediate gratification? We could pull up a chair, get serious and give you all kind of reasons for this. They would likely range from mid-life crises to much-needed emotional attachments to simple carnal lust. But here’s the only answer you really need to know – you might be the only one who really cares enough to find the truth.
You’re likely the only person who’s being hurt, after all, so you’re likely the only person invested enough in the situation to learn the facts.
If your goal is learning the answer to that burning question, however, there are plenty of professionals who can help you get there. Literally, thousands of therapists, marriage counselors and men and women of the cloth are ready and able to hold your hand and help you determine why your relationship has fallen or is falling, apart.
But if you want to catch your significant other with his or her pants down, whether literally or figuratively, then hiring a private investigator is one of the best options available to you. “Our clients are about 50/50, male and female,” says Danny Gomez, a Dallas Private Investigator working with ACES Private Investigations of Dallas.
Using the top of the line surveillance equipment, highly trained personnel and good old-fashioned investigative techniques, cheaters can be caught in the act and dealt with accordingly. All state laws vary, we recommend you check with an attorney before deciding to hire a private investigator. In some cases, we have seen judges award the suspecting spouse reimbursement for the costs accrued from hiring an investigator.
Depending on the type of services the investigator suggests is right for you costs could vary from one hundred dollars to thousands of dollars. PI’s will typically ask for a retainer up-front and for their clients to sign some legal paperwork. From there, the investigators can do anything from surveillance, date baiting, and gps tracking.
What happens next is up to you. Once the information you want and need is in your hands, you can decide what’s best for you and your situation. Don’t go another minute without knowing for certain if your relationship is on solid footing, or if you’re just living a lie.
Knowledge is power, and only with the proper facts can you adequately make informed decisions about your future. Consider hiring a private investigator today if you want to know once and for all if your significant other is being faithful to you and your relationship. Trust us, you’ll be glad you did!
Contributing Author: James Diehl
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